[VIDEO] The Benefits of Vulnerability with Rebecca Anderson
Being vulnerable is one quality that makes Rebecca Anderson such a powerful storyteller. I’ve heard her tell a story about her body falling apart. Vulnerability is one way to connect with an audience, but know you can stay within your own boundaries.
Why would I ever want to be vulnerable in front of an audience?
Rebecca Anderson tells you why.
This is part 3 of a 3-part conversation.
Part 1 is on the blog. So is Part 2.
Staying with the theme of being vulnerable in business (or when speaking, or when storytelling…), we now hear more from Story Maven Rebecca Anderson on the benefits of being vulnerable.
Here’s the good news: You don’t have to share any more than you’re comfortable sharing. And you may only have to share it with 1 or 2 other people.
Randy and I sat down with Rebecca to hear more about her process, especially when she teaches storytelling workshops to other faith communities. The church Rebecca co-founded, Gilead Chicago, is centered around sharing true stories.
Her advice on storytelling applies to speaking or presenting, too, so give a listen to our conversation, and learn how to do vulnerability right.
Our 3 Favorite Takeaways
Find a minimum of 1 person you can be vulnerable with.
This might mean a loved one you can practice a speech with, or a trusted friend you can share a painful story with. Sharing your story with a trusted audience builds connection and is supportive for the speaker.Be a storyteller who has care for the audience.
This doesn’t mean avoiding the ugly topics or the difficult discussions, but be mindful of how you phrase something, or what sort of details you share. Might there be someone a little more sensitive in the audience? Is this the right audience for this material? Be a thoughtful presenter.In a group, you can always check in with yourself. And know that if something is too much - you can always leave the room.
The nice thing about being in a roomful of people (at a worship service, at a conference, or in a meeting, etc.) is you’re part of a group, sharing a collective experience. But if something you’re hearing is a bit much for you - you’re welcome to step out of the room.
Want to hear more?
Where Can I Practice Storytelling? Chicago + Nationwide
Need help with your own speech, presentation, or story? Get in touch to work with me or Randy.
Rebecca Anderson performing at The Paper Machete.
About The Author
Hi! I’m Marianna. I make public speaking and presentation skills easier for my clients. I help with everything from preparation to managing anxiety and nerves to speaking with strength and confidence. In addition to Presentation Skills workshops, I offer executive coaching and Keynote speeches. To learn more, Get in touch.
